blog and comment may start a conversation, how, how.... people need to be warned

Some people love to blog, some love to comment. Some love both to each their own.

Some people just love to express their opionion. Some people come up with a conversation.

Some people love to interact with others.

 

People comment to talk. People who comment accept the possibility to be talked to. People who comment shouldn't be ignored, now should they?

 

Now the people who blog have two possibilities, answer or ignore.

If you ignore comments people complain about being ignored.

If you answer people will complain about being answered.

So actually the result is the same people complain!

 

Why bother to comment if you don't want to be answered or talked to?

Why complain about your own actions?

 

People are people indeed.

I love to talk...

So beware: Commenting on my post may draw you into a conversation!!!

Scary ain't it?

Utterly unexpected and surprising?!

 

To leave a comment, please sign in with
or or

Comments (143)

  1. victoriaisblond

    I like this. Very good.

    July 10, 2014
    1. yayuki

      Thank you… felt like posting this was due

      July 10, 2014
      1. victoriaisblond

        I agree!

        July 10, 2014
        1. yayuki

          I mean we all enjoy conversation silent or open… obviously people have a problem with others having long conversations on their own blogs now as well…

          July 10, 2014
          1. victoriaisblond

            Well, it’s really no their business, now is it?

            July 10, 2014
            1. yayuki

              absolutely, yet they still somehow feel they have the right to complain… I guess some people just think everything is about them or what they like and don’t like…

              July 10, 2014
            2. victoriaisblond

              Sounds just llike my supposed mom, P.

              July 10, 2014
            3. yayuki

              I guess some people are more content with just themselves and their own statement thrown at others then a real dialog, where one considers the others pov… One learns something new everyday… I doubt it will change my way to treat others the same way as I always do… I mean someone always complains somehow…

              July 16, 2014
            4. victoriaisblond

              You are right.

              July 17, 2014
            5. yayuki

              I wish I wasn’t though… I’d love a world without complains a lot better

              July 18, 2014
  2. shadow-storm

    Lis! It would seem we’re gluttons for disappointment if we talk to others and expect them to keep quiet
    I typically enjoy at least reading & observing conversations even if I don’t feel like conversing at the time

    July 10, 2014
    1. yayuki

      Paradox, this week is definitely the week or paradox…
      people talk and want to be ignored. People don’t want to be ignored and don’t talk.
      People talk and don’t want to be talked to. People don’t want to be ignored and talked to.
      People don’t want others to be talked to. People don’t want others to be ignored.
      People don’t want to be talked to more than once.
      People want to talk a whole conversation…
      add to that my bad bad vertigo
      whirl whirl whirl
      nag nag nag

      July 10, 2014
      1. shadow-storm

        I’m fine with most options…

        July 10, 2014
      2. shadow-storm

        Except for the vertigo, I hope that it subsides soon. I’ve had mini-flashes of the sensation at times and its terribly disconcerting so if it’s possible for you to feel better, that’s definitely preferable.

        July 10, 2014
        1. yayuki

          I hope so too… If it doesn’t leave I’ll be stuck with cortisone… makes concentrating and spelling a real challenge

          July 10, 2014
  3. johnnygreybeard

    Please always feel comfortable saying as much or little as you want with me.
    My post, your post or anywhere else you may communicate with me

    We should all be free to be ourselves. If someone is too picky, they just need to get over it. Hmmm

    July 10, 2014
    1. yayuki

      Exactly my point I just don’t understand what they think will happen? Somehow it feels they actually believe someone who irritates them needs to apologize for tainting their narrow walls with a bit of colour…
      How do they cope with life? Sounds like a god complex knocking on the door… I wouldn’t manage to survive one year with that mindset, it’s just so small it makes you feel they are about to suffocate… poor guys…
      .
      I don’t mind don’t get me wrong… just feel annoyed when they try to force it on someone

      July 10, 2014
  4. peacefulthinking

    I beleive if someone is on my friends list and posted they want a conversation. It is as if they came to my house or called me on the phone, I answer

    July 10, 2014
    1. yayuki

      I would say it is quite normal to respond to people who adress you, right? Especially if they are on f-list and one is online and sees it one answers. Same with people one talked to before, one answers… I can’t relate to the long talk and complain afterwards mentality… If I don’t have time or don’t feel well or whatever I just respond with a little remark, like later or not right now… I would have thought that was the commonly agreed upon by the majority way of handling this…

      July 10, 2014
      1. peacefulthinking

        Well I am a prolific commentor I beleive if you accept a friendship you owe it communication.

        July 10, 2014
        1. yayuki

          I agree… of course when one is honest every friendship has high and low communication periods depending on how many other influences whirl us away, and there may be reasons for friends to not be able to see or hear each other not necessarily related to their wish to communicate…. sometimes silence can be a way to communicate too… ever experienced comfortable silence with someone, that’s rare but actually communicating I am comfortable and relaxed…
          .
          the internet is more difficult in this regard… because only here someone says hi because he doesn’t want to be talked to

          July 10, 2014
          1. peacefulthinking

            yes a short comment at times here is all that is needed. In life silence can be fun .. enjoying the moment

            July 10, 2014
            1. yayuki

              yeah… smile…. It is rare but very comfortable… Idle chichat can be fun too, or just considering possibilities and exploring topics unless someone gets it into their head to convince you that their opinion is the only one counting… I’m usually all calm about this matter but with vertigo trying to make you puke I really can’t handle someone trying to annoy me at the same time… heaven forgive me I’m only human, too
              … but I enjoy nice conversation and fun

              July 10, 2014
  5. This comment has been deleted
    1. yayuki

      now you are staring here… look you can obviously do whatever you want to do… If you want to be the one that comments to simply to comment, great… but well I actuallyit makes you look biased considering that was what you harassed wart about… just a thought

      July 10, 2014
      1. This comment has been deleted
        1. yayuki

          sigh yes you are wasting your time as you do most of the time by tring to run into open doors or walls that don’t exist… Enjoy your day

          July 10, 2014
          1. This comment has been deleted
  6. GoldenPig2012

    Like you, I think the point of posting or responding is to have a conversation.

    July 10, 2014
    1. yayuki

      I always thought everyone did until I came across people who consider themselves from pestered to stalked if one replies to their comments on one’s own blog. It doesn’t change my mind though, I still think posting and replying is for making conversation

      July 16, 2014
  7. shinesweet28

    Just be YOU Yuki!!! just be yourself… we like you for who you are…

    July 11, 2014
    1. yayuki

      THank you , that means much to me

      July 16, 2014
  8. kachinablue

    Some people just love to express their opionion.= ME… Thanks for the write, Yayuki-san. #staytruthful

    July 16, 2014
    1. yayuki

      Indeed they do… even if I don’t really get what it gives to them to just add their opinion… it would be the same as running into a room full of people screaming one phrase and then rushing out again… What’s the use shakes head

      July 16, 2014
      1. kachinablue

        I know what you’re getting at… Expression of ideals are important and what’s even more perplexing than that- they don’t have to be relevant to anyone else other than the person who possesses them. #staytruthful

        July 16, 2014
        1. yayuki

          yes, exactly… To be told someone doesn’t want you to reply is so ‘twilight zone’ somehow

          July 18, 2014
          1. kachinablue

            Now I see what you’re getting at… I have this feeling that you’re implying something about someone. #staytruthful

            July 18, 2014
            1. yayuki

              Nah, I was not implying… I had trouble sitting straight and seeing straight because of vertigo turning my mind over and trying to drag me to the floor, I was already annoyed by someone trying to get my email, some guy offering whatever, someone getting agitated over me not replying fast enough, another wrote I wasn’t writing about their opinion and should, the last one sent it overboard… I felt sick and this person tried on and on to convince me to see their light, even though I had written about something else and then complained that I was replying at all…. obviously comments are not for communication… whatever… vertigo sucked, the communication with this person sucked like hell… and I thought it was finally time for this kind of post Somewhere along the way being polite sucked, but the other person refused to see

              July 18, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              Yes, it is indeed rather obvious that you have problems seeing straight. LOL!!!

              July 18, 2014
  9. wirelessguru1

    The problem with starting a conversation with you is that it can never be finished! LOL!!!

    July 18, 2014
    1. yayuki

      is that a bad thing now LOL

      July 18, 2014
      1. wirelessguru1

        Who said that it was a bad thing!?

        July 18, 2014
        1. yayuki

          the one who thinks he’s reality is something to keep

          July 18, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            To keep reality the one thinks something who is he

            July 18, 2014
            1. yayuki

              the one who deleted his comments on this post, I guess he did it because he likes to keep it real

              July 18, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              The one did not delete his posts!

              July 18, 2014
            3. yayuki

              not his post his comments here, he did, I read it on here… comment deleted

              July 18, 2014
            4. wirelessguru1

              Who is he now!? Certainly not the one!

              July 18, 2014
            5. yayuki

              yeah, him… I was sick and polite and he got into his usual temper because he read something into something that wasn’t there at all… got angry and came up with the idea comments are not for talk and I should stop replying to people

              July 18, 2014
            6. wirelessguru1

              Again, him who!?
              Who are you talking about!!!???

              July 18, 2014
            7. yayuki

              you’re favourite adversary in battle of mind or should I say mindless battle… I am not going to write the name here, now that would not be very polite…

              July 18, 2014
            8. wirelessguru1

              Say what!? Who is my favorite adversary in battle now!?

              July 18, 2014
            9. yayuki

              Look if you don’t remember the commenication we had about that a few month ago :eyeroll: Whatever…. at least he actually wiped his comments away, which surprised me

              July 18, 2014
            10. wirelessguru1

              WTF! He/his/who/whom!?
              Who are you talking about!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????

              July 18, 2014
            11. yayuki

              oh, don’t play dump you usually read the comments on the posts you reply on, the fifth person who commented here on this post, he deleted his comments for whatever reason… he loved to call you and wart troll in march or was it april

              July 18, 2014
            12. wirelessguru1

              No, you’re dumb!
              ..and what fifth person is that now!?
              Who is he who deleted hos comments!?
              Either case moron, what kind of a lousy guessing game are you playing here now!!!???

              July 18, 2014
            13. wirelessguru1

              Who is he who deleted his comments!?

              July 18, 2014
            14. yayuki

              sure, be a hedgehog if you must…

              question 1+2: you could solve that by youself by coming to this post instead of replying from the comment page while handling multiple conversation it wears on the quality of your comments, you know

              It is not my fault that you little hedgehog have problems remembering conversations once had…it ain’t no guessing game… I tried to answer your curiousity without telling every blogger around here…. but well if you refuse to know….

              July 18, 2014
            15. wirelessguru1

              Moron (freak), you are the hedgehog!
              ..and the quality of your comments are lousy at best since you can’t even answer a SIMPLE QUESTION!!!

              July 18, 2014
            16. yayuki

              I answered it right away it ain’t my fault you can only understand when written knit together with added number… LMAO

              July 18, 2014
            17. wirelessguru1

              MORON, YOU DID NOT ANSWER IT!!

              July 18, 2014
            18. yayuki

              yes, I did and believe me half of the reading population knows already… you on the other hand refuse to see and overread

              July 18, 2014
            19. wirelessguru1

              Moron, no you did NOT! WAKE UP!!!!!!!

              July 18, 2014
            20. yayuki

              yes, I did, WAKE UP and keep it real hedgehog, keep it in spikes LOL

              July 18, 2014
            21. wirelessguru1

              Moron (freak), YOU are the stubborn hedgehog who cannot even answer a simple question! Wake up indeed!!!

              July 18, 2014
        2. yayuki

          and some others around here who are a little bit odd, since they believe comments are not made for communication

          July 18, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            Well, I AM fully odd.

            July 18, 2014
            1. yayuki

              nah your fun mostly except when you are not

              July 18, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              Look, the one is odd by definition.

              July 18, 2014
            3. yayuki

              paradoxical but true

              July 18, 2014
            4. wirelessguru1

              Of course, the one is odd but true.
              +1 (Neo)

              July 18, 2014
            5. yayuki

              so how are you today?

              July 18, 2014
            6. wirelessguru1

              How I AM today varies from time to time…

              July 18, 2014
            7. yayuki

              chuckle… from second to second or from minute to minute LOL

              July 18, 2014
            8. wirelessguru1

              It depends…

              July 18, 2014
            9. yayuki

              thought so…

              July 18, 2014
            10. wirelessguru1

              It is so…

              July 18, 2014
            11. yayuki

              sure times are everchanging

              July 18, 2014
            12. wirelessguru1

              But you are still a moron who cannot even answer a simple question!!!

              July 18, 2014
            13. yayuki

              chuckle… now that is self-critisism your doing great at it

              July 18, 2014
            14. wirelessguru1

              No way moron, that is criticizing YOU!

              July 18, 2014
            15. yayuki

              hahahahaha… yeah, you go on believing that… you really are similar in that regard, so stubborn

              July 18, 2014
            16. wirelessguru1

              No way moron, YOU are stubborn!!!

              July 18, 2014
  10. wirelessguru1

    Moron (freak), how AM I suppose yo know who is deleting posts in your threads!?

    July 18, 2014
    1. yayuki

      Cause I told you….

      July 18, 2014
      1. wirelessguru1

        Only in your dreams, I suppose!

        July 18, 2014
        1. yayuki

          nope you and him are similar in behaviour… you are just so vage you are fun while he tries to stick labels on people

          July 18, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            Moron, him who!?
            Moron, it is YOU who is vague!

            July 18, 2014
            1. yayuki

              I am subtle not vague LOL and besides that it is really not important if you don’t get it you don’t get it… don’t get your knickers in a twist about it….

              July 18, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              So moron, your knickers are in a twist now?

              July 19, 2014
            3. yayuki

              no chance, there is no way I am wearing your knickers… talking about personal space now that is too close even for a hedgehog…. no sharing of underwear with thee… you’ll probably even leave pins behind

              July 19, 2014
            4. wirelessguru1

              So moron, you’re a hedgehog and your knickers are in a twist!

              July 19, 2014
            5. yayuki

              I already told you I don’t want your knickers… phew get away from me withthose unwashed smelly….

              July 19, 2014
            6. wirelessguru1

              So moron, your twisted knickers are unwashed and smelly!

              July 19, 2014
            7. yayuki

              nope the one you are trying to push at me are

              July 19, 2014
            8. wirelessguru1

              Moron, I’m not pushing anything!

              July 19, 2014
            9. yayuki

              keep you r knicker on spikey LOL

              July 19, 2014
  11. wirelessguru1

    Moron (freak), conversation with you can never be finished because you are extremely stubborn!!!

    July 18, 2014
    1. yayuki

      Mirror

      July 18, 2014
      1. wirelessguru1

        Moron!!!

        July 18, 2014
        1. yayuki

          hedgehog!!!!!

          July 18, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            Yes you are!

            July 18, 2014
            1. yayuki

              munch an applecore …

              July 18, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              July 19, 2014
        2. yayuki

          ok have another applecore

          July 19, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            FU!

            July 19, 2014
            1. yayuki

              cute a hedgehog sneezing LOL wish I had a camera

              July 19, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              So go buy a camera if you wish to have one!

              July 19, 2014
            3. yayuki

              Oh I doubt you’ll sneeze again anytime soon

              July 19, 2014
  12. wirelessguru1

    Moron (freak), conversations with you can never be finished because you can’t even answer simple questions!!!

    July 18, 2014
    1. yayuki

      hehe right back at you LOL

      July 18, 2014
      1. wirelessguru1

        Moron!!!

        July 18, 2014
        1. yayuki

          hedgehog!!!

          July 18, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            Yes you are!

            July 18, 2014
            1. yayuki

              munch a cherry

              July 18, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              July 19, 2014
        2. yayuki

          munch another the mood will change

          July 19, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            Moron, what mood!?

            July 19, 2014
            1. yayuki

              my way of asking what’s with the constant eyerolls today…. lift up have some fruit ….

              July 19, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              Moron, what constant eyerolls!?
              Are you seeing things!?

              July 19, 2014
            3. yayuki

              riddle me this riddle me that how many times did this hedgehog roll the eyes in his head… today 32

              July 19, 2014
            4. wirelessguru1

              Moron, you are the hedgehog.

              July 19, 2014
            5. yayuki

              July 19, 2014
  13. wirelessguru1

    Moron (freak), people need to be warned that you don’t answer simple questions!!!

    July 18, 2014
    1. yayuki

      People no you never answer a question be it simple or not

      July 18, 2014
      1. wirelessguru1

        People know that you’re a moron!

        July 19, 2014
        1. yayuki

          people know you are a moron and a pain in the a** LOL

          July 19, 2014
          1. wirelessguru1

            No moron, people know that I AM a big dick and a pain in the ass. LOL!!!

            July 19, 2014
            1. yayuki

              hahahaha and here I thought you weren’t into men LMAO

              July 19, 2014
            2. wirelessguru1

              No, I AM not into men! Women also have asses! Wake up!!!

              July 19, 2014
            3. yayuki

              well…. while they undeniable have them the are not the first I think of considering a big dick

              July 19, 2014
  14. Nightbane

    as the stone in rushing stream…..

    July 18, 2014
    1. yayuki

      this one I like… it fits, too… people always try to move another in their direction… I prefer to just move a thought

      July 18, 2014
      1. Nightbane

        even a stone enjoys a jacuzzi.

        July 18, 2014
        1. yayuki

          it sure does especially when it came from a hotspring

          July 18, 2014
          1. Nightbane

            beyond perfection if also effervescent.

            July 18, 2014
            1. yayuki

              the japanese hotspring melting the falling snowflakes on it’s surface and the fur of the mountain monkey

              July 19, 2014
            2. Nightbane

              yes.

              July 19, 2014
          2. yayuki

            hm in sync with nature I agree

            July 19, 2014