Three letters that rule the world, but do they really? What is real and what is a wish created by media and the attempt to keep society young and prosper? Politics and religion make procreation into a thing of great importance. Media makes romantic love seem like the heaven we all should live to reach.
People marry young to be free to finally have the bodily encounter media made them dream about since the first time they snooped into the books, films, adds of the so longed for world of being adult. Wishes that lead to expectations hard to meet. What for? Do people need the constant reminder of their fertility? Would people simply stop to procreate if they are not reminded that they can at every place they frequent? What insight does that hint at?
People run from commitment like it where the plague while asking for eternal love and devotion at the same time, best to get from all sort of people that are easy to hand it over, greed assisted by so-called parties that know-it-all and councel to live and approach live as the individuals people are.How does one live focused on individuality in a working relationship? I guess the councelors don't believe relationships are worth saving and aim for prevention. How to prevent anticipating the worst? How to prevent that they assume the worst?
The letters rule human life through many autorities. Some authorities that people chose on their own, others they were given by chance, ideas planted with intent and calculation. Wishes of many to through masses of people into conflict and wonder. Is a man only a man if he isn't impotent ? Is a man only a man if he jumps all that lives? Is masculinity just another word mindless horny ape? When has adult become a synonym for able to perform adultery and worse? Is being human reduced to being a fertile procreater and an active participant of the wishful dreams society sustains?
People seem to stop thinking as soon as it comes to the topic of aims in life, most add romantic relationships. Do they really listen to inner compulsion to pair up or do they listen to needs planted by inventive minds? No secrets!
Society has to encourage people to pair up because it needs children to remain a working society. The smaller the society the more procreation is wanted. While serious religious societies aim for children of more or less funtioning units to assure that the childs first steps are well guarded, states just take the offspring any way it comes. The more pressuring the decreasing birthrate becomes the more aggressice the propaganda against unwilling or unable to procreate parts of society becomes. Nothing to do with belief all about numbers, power and securing established social systems. All to influence the minds and focus the blame to change opinions by pressure and get results.